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What's in The Mother's mailbag ~ pre-2006

Here's a selection of letters from the current and all back issues of The Mother.

I've just got TM Issue 13 today, and was just sitting outside enjoying both it and the sunshine. I felt compelled to drop you a line straight away, just to say how competent I found your reply to Rachel's letter about the summer camp. As I started to read, I felt apprehensive, in case you wouldn't say everything I myself was feeling about it. But you did. I read it thinking 'yes, yes, yes!' So thank you for saying it for me; I for one felt your reply was perfect; firm, understanding, explanatory and compassionate. I now feel even happier in my support of The Mother project, and can see how safe it is with your hands and heart to guide it.

With my very best wishes,

Vicky Sherrard
Kirkby Lonsdale, UK

As ever I feel truly blessed to receive the magazine.

I often wondered after those first few issues, how the impetus could ever be sustained! How the raw earth beauty and gifting could possibly express into the continuum of today.

And yet it has!! The uncurling of the petals, the ongoing sharing of deeper and deeper fragrance continues to touch our hearts and our core communion with The Mother.

Each issue is unique. Each birth story a magickal tale of mystery and power.

The ongoing inclusion of life issues from education, to rural versus urban living and soooooooooooo much more.

I truly feel nourished by the reading.

I applaud the natural inclusion of the dads, siblings, family.

The Mother is Sacred Space - a Shrine at which life is consecrated and celebrated.

As a reader, I feel so proud to be part of this and I feel so proud that you Veronika continue to stand in your circle and sing your song in beauty and strength.

I love you. I honour the expression of Spirit within your heart. Namaste,

Ruth Allen
www.livinglifealive.com

Yesterday a friend passed me your mag to read an article, hence I became engrossed and couldn't put it down. I was delighted to realise that I know you from when you guys lived here (in New Zealand). We now have two boys Bodhi and Eli. Ruth was Eli’s midwife so I saw Bethany’s birth video.

Eli and I are holidaying this summer in the UK to catch up with family and friends. I would love to make contact and am very interested in unschooling, healthy veggie food, etc.

Veronica Lockie
Far North, New Zealand

I can't emphasise enough what an important voice yours and the other voices in your magazine are. I think so many of us would just give up in the face of adversity and opposition if it wasn't for forums like The Mother. I'm looking forward very much to the camp.

Siobhán
Ireland

I end each night with a little quiet time in my bed with The Mother magazine. Each night I’m inspired and comforted, so thank you! I need you guys!! I’ve been spreading the word about my terrific find.

Julie Ustruck
USA

There are a few things that I just love about The Mother that I find so original. One is the fact that spirituality and parenthood are so intertwined in this magazine. I’ve never found a magazine that has done something like that. The Mother really talks about pregnancy/childbirth for what is, an incredibly transforming and spiritual experience. And, of course, I really enjoy the natural parenting styles that are represented so normally. I really want more people to see this magazine because they will realise how very normal homeopathic parenting is.

April Adams
USA

I always look forward to The Mother arriving. I can absorb myself where I feel I belong, the comfort of like minded parents and parents to be. The warmth, the love, the sharing is so important to me. Thank you for this wonderful magazine.

Lee Bradford
Hexham, Northumberland, UK

A beacon of light amidst the commercial consumerism and materialistic crap out there! Great to realise you’re not the only ones who seem to be on an alternative to the ‘mine’s bigger/better than yours’ ethos.

Thanks

Rachel Pickett
Staffs, UK

I love the mag. It’s really on our wavelength ~ it’s a breath of fresh air in an insane world. Lots of thanks and best wishes.

Sandra Crawford
Totnes, UK

I wait impatiently for the next issue. The Mother magazine grows and feeds my spiritual and loving nature. I have two children. My daughter Rachael and my son Ruaraidh, 18 months, who was a little miracle… a totally natural baby, unimmunised, organic, still breastfeeding. We cuddle up together every night to sleep and read articles in The Mother magazine. Ode to a natural sleep.

Thank you!

Eleanor Slaughter
Argyll, Scotland

You have opened my mind and heart ~ your magazine is an immense inspiration to me and my family. Thank you for all your hard work.

Helen Rastall
Ilkeston, Derbyshire, UK

Thank you for your wonderful magazine. I’m still not living a life as holistic as I would wish, but your magazine provides me with challenges and inspiration, plus a refuge from the mainstream culture I live in.

Rachel Nixon
Handsworth, Sheffield, UK

Thank you for the sample. However, I would not be able to place such a magazine in our waiting room because of too much nudity, which I find rather offensive.

Name withheld, CNM
USA

Thank you for your feedback. We realise that our magazine resonates with a unique substructure of the birthing community ~ silent, usually, for the exact common reason you have expressed. The art depicted on the pages of The Mother is reader-sent: true bliss and peace displayed through their faces. It is representative of their pregnancies and their birthing joy.

With regards

Lynda Cook Sawyer RNC, MBA, IBCLC
US/Canadian Publisher
The Mother magazine
www.midwifescottage.com

It was really lovely talking to you on the phone today ~ and I’m really looking forward to reading the magazines as well as Unassisted Childbirth. Thank you for keeping going with this amazing magazine.

Lots of love

Hazel Barker
Bridgend, Wales

I read The Mother magazine from one of my friends and am really interested in the content. I won’t hide my feelings that I’m impressed. I would like to receive your editions because it will boost my career being a student in midwifery.

Ogungbemi Olajumoke
Ondo State School of Midwifery
Akure, Ondo State, Nigeria

Your magazine supports and encourages me in my mothering. I particularly love the birth stories, unschooling, the Possible Mother column and reading about Earthsong!

Sarah McCaffrey
Birmingham, UK

I look forward to receiving every issue. The magazine goes from strength to strength. It is a comfortable refuge from what often feels like a harsh world.

Elizabeth Davis
Cardiff, Wales

Please subscribe a dear friend on my behalf who will also help to share all these wonderfully inspiring ideas and thoughts with women in France. I appreciate hearing from women further down the line. Body Knowledge TM10, amongst many other things. Take care, and love to you all at The Cottage. Many thanks and blessings for all you are doing.

Samantha Price
Arcenant, France

What a joy to read your article on homeschooling ~ The good, the bad and the snugly. I can so relate to everything you talked about and repeatedly laughed aloud while reading your article. Eliza and Ian would get along extremely well. Just the other night, Ian, Abby and I went to bed and I nursed Abby to sleep and then rolled over to be next to Ian. I thought he was sleeping as his breathing was calm and steady. I closed my eyes and started to drift into dreamland when I heard him state: “Mom, what are trains made of?” And so began the night time home schooling lesson.

What could be better than encouraging learning literally all day and allowing those questions to be answered as they are thought about rather than waiting for the appropriate time?

I applaud you for the great article.

Sarah Bastian
USA

In response to the article on Highly Sensitive Children, I’d like readers to know that there is a new yahoo email group for families of HSCs who practise attachment parenting and unschool. The group can be found at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hsc_ap_unschool/

Thanks for all you do!

Ellen Sandoval
Florida, USA

The New Zealand College of Midwives have endorsed the meningococcal B vaccine programme ~ after giving their affiliates under three hours (via email) to respond/comment, which is barely paying lip service. As of October, Midwives here are required to register all babies on the National Immunisation Register. Parents can subsequently opt off but this means their child’s details are still in the system!

Emma Lewis
Dunedin, New Zealand

Veronika, to the moon and back, thank you! I received your magazine and it has truly changed my life. I’ve just sat and read your article about Conscious Conception out loud while Steve painted the kitchen orange and it has blown us away. It brings such reassurance to know you are there, living, loving, being. I could barely read parts of the article without openly sobbing or laughing ~ real emotions that without doubt are an essential part of the healing process.

We all want to thank you for the amazing gift you are sharing with the world. It does, and is, making a difference. Today it has made a difference to our lives.

With much love and light

Nicky, Steve and Ruby
By email

I have again really enjoyed the last issue of The Mother. I wanted to acknowledge you for so clearly responding to the critical voice about the camp rules. You have always been very clear in your communication and people then have a choice whether they want to be in your presence or not!

Maya Morgan
Wadhurst, East Sussex, UK

I have just received my sample copy of The Mother magazine this morning. I’ve devoured it from cover to cover and promptly ordered a subscription. I just wanted to congratulate you, not only on a wonderful magazine, but on publishing the highly critical letter you received from Rachel Gooch, and your reply. It isn’t every magazine that so readily discusses the criticisms they receive in such an honest and open way. I was pleasantly surprised.

I have to be honest and say I thought I would have reservations about whether The Mother would suit me and my family. We co-sleep, use slings, breastfeed and intend on child led weaning. We use cloth nappies, are green minded and believe in natural birth. However, we also eat meat (although only free range and organic), my son is vaccinated, and being largely humanist/athiest, don’t hold spiritual beliefs of any kind. I worried that I would find the tone of the magazine dogmatic and would be unable to place myself in the landscape. However, partly because of your reply to that letter, but mostly because of the interesting, surprising, passionate and, most importantly, inclusive nature of your magazine, I felt every bit a part of the world you and your contributors discuss ~ welcomed with open arms!

How satisfying to have found a publication dedicated not only to the issues I find important, but also to a wealth of other diverse topics! As a woman who refuses to conform to the cookie-cutter role of mainstream motherhood today, I find great strength in reading stories and articles of other families who dare to be different in whatever ways suit them. I enjoy the strong, uncompromising character of the magazine ~ you’re honest about what you stand for and I find it inspiring.

I begin work as a trainee doula this Autumn and will be definitely recommending The Mother magazine to the mamas I care for! Thanks TM!

Hannah Crittenden
Streatham, UK

If you ever have what I call a ‘human’ day, or a moment in your life when you sit at your computer feeling glum, the children being supreme experts at testing your patience, and, oh yes, yet another bill was dropped through the mailbox, you feel unconnected to Spirit, the earth and all that is beautiful around you, I would like you to remember how much your magazine has changed my life.

Two years ago I was a 38 year old career woman and wife ~ nice car, nice house, comfortable life. I’d never really had all those hormones that other women had when it came to children. Yes, they are lovely, but nay, I couldn’t eat a whole one.

Then I got pregnant and my friend bought me a copy of your magazine. Wow!!! I don’t even recognise that person anymore.

I understood how beautiful it was to have this new soul inside me and how very precious she was.

I learned all about independent midwives and had the most amazing, spiritual homebirth. We are definitely going to home educate her, against all opposition.

She hasn’t been vaccinated and only eats organic food. She’s never been to see a doctor, only a herbalist. I respect her for the beautiful soul that she is...and all this came from your magazine!

In between all this, after just a few weeks of our daughter’s arrival, my husband fractured his spine, leaving him out of work for over a year. He’s just got back to work doing care work, something he’s always wanted to do. We now live on £8K a year as opposed to £30K a year. The house is being sold for a much smaller two-bed, somewhere we can feel the earth. And we’ve never been so happy.

I don’t wear make up any more and my nails haven’t seen nail polish since I can’t remember when. My life is more whole that it has ever been and most amazing still, I’m now a very young (but tired) 40 year old who is being honoured with another soul’s arrival. So please, on those human days, just think how much you’ve changed our little one’s life, and smile, because you are amazing.

Love, light and blessings

Kymi, Ken and Catherine-Star & new bump

Thanks again for the wonderful Mother. Issue 12 arrived the day after the due date of my fourth baby. It really lifted my spirits. Rosana Pedzi Nyoko eventually came to join our family on March 5th, 16 days after her due date. It was a wonderful, peaceful homebirth, unassisted and inspiring. Thank you to Georgina Kelly for her article, Birthing and saying the great yes!

I vocalised throughout my two and three quarter hour labour, talking to my baby and saying ‘yes’ to all the sensations of birth. I will treasure the experience all of my life.

Gemma Shepherd
Glencoe, Scotland

I came across a copy of your magazine at Mother’s Own Birth and Women’s Centre, located in Temperance, Michigan, USA. I am a huge fan of your magazine!!! I can’t wait to receive the next issue.

Shelly DeMeo
By email

I have just read my first issue of The Mother and absolutely loved it. At last I’ve found a magazine that cares passionately about the things I do and makes me feel my parenting decisions are right. Thanks so much.

Vicki Havler
By email

Thank you so, so much for your beautiful magazine. Until very recently I have been a full-time mother to my three children. My first two children were born in hospital, taken away from me at birth and assaulted by the usual barrage of medical interventions. Thankfully, I realised that this was not the way for a child to be welcomed into our world, and for the birth of my third baby I planned and had a family home birth. Noah is now 17 months, is still breastfeeding (to the dismay of some 'friends') and has been raised in a much more child-centred approach.
I enjoyed reading and re-reading each article and know that I will look forward to each issue - the empowerment and self-belief I have taken from your magazine is guiding me towards a more natural, spiritual and holistic family way of life ~ a journey I started two years ago but until now has felt quite lonely.

I have recently started my midwifery training: I believe passionately in birth and the birth of a family. I greatly look forward to allowing your magazine to keep me centred on a loving and natural approach.

With best wishes
Angela Horler
Mother, Childbirth Educator (Dip) and Student Midwife.

I have made some great contacts through the magazine and had some lovely feedback. I can say quite without reservation that your mag has the most committed readership of any that I have featured in.

Barry Durdant-Hollamby
Author, The Male Agenda
West Sussex, UK.

What a smashing read!
Fionna Brown
Ross Shire
Scotland

Thanks for a wonderful magazine
Nicki Feltham
West Sussex

The Mother arrived today (the day my first born Daniel becomes 18) and the birthday of my becoming a mother. It also happens to be Thanksgiving Day today and I have so much to be thankful for! I feel quite emotional. Daniel was born in Cyprus where quite amazingly I got hold of a La Leche League's Womanly Art of Breastfeeding. So Daniel was breastfed, we had a family bed, we didn't spank him, and he was homeschooled. I hardly knew anyone who practiced even one of those let alone all! LLL and Summerhill were our 'mentors'. Daniel is now in school doing his last year of A levels before moving on to study Law. He never went to play school or school until he was 15 1/2 He's looking forward to buying his own alcholic drink tonight! And just a few days ago, my youngest son Robert, my baby, turned 11. Will I renew my subscription? Of course I will! You keep me in touch with the wonderful radicals who truly believe in their babies' birthrights and in their vocation as mothers. It's a heartening reminder that, in spite of the sad mothering I see around me, all those wonderful mothers do exist and are nurturing one another with their witnesses and stories. PS ~ What a wonderful mother you have!

Leda Skeens
Burnham on Crouch, Essex, UK

WOW ~ What a great mag. Please send a copy to my sis. Thanks.
Sonia

I would like to renew my subscription of your wonderful magazine, The Mother.
Jill Johnston
Castle Douglas, Scotland

To everyone involved in The Mother. First of all a huge thank you for such a wonderful magazine ~ I have loved every issue and can't begin to tell you how much it supports and nourishes me both as a mother and a woman. I would love to share the gems that I read on your pages and would like to give gift subscriptions to two of my like minded friends.
Jo Wheeler
Warwick, UK

Just received my first issue ~Summer 2004. Loved it. Please send me back issues 2 -9. Please would you send some subscription forms to pas onto other people. Thank you so much for a great magazine. Its arrival was timely. Editor's notes were good medicine for me after I weighed my baby (for the 2nd time only) and she had gone down a percentile. I had felt she was doing great pre-weigh and then post-weigh started to question whether I was providing her with enough nourishment from breastfeeding. Had come to the conclusion that she is thriving and that we'll forget the weigh-ins. She hated it anyway! Then the next day TM popped through the door.
Keren Baynes MacLean
Edinburgh, Scotland

Please send me the back issues of your brilliant magazine, # 2 ~ 9. Keep up the good work ~ a first class magazine and much needed.
Best wishes to all.
Jill Goodwin
Liverpool, UK

I received my first copy of The Mother magazine yesterday. I feel honoured and very grateful to have found your wonderful publication. It is so personal and heartwarming. Thank you. Please find enclosed a cheque for the back issues which I can't wait to receive.
Rahima Carmichael
Dorset, UK

Thanks very much for a great mag.
Jenny Griffin
Cologne, Germany

Shamefully late, but many, many thanks for a wonderful camp. Your vision and strength are inspirational. Emily's birthday tea and crown were so lovely, such a gentle, wholesome way of celebrating another year. Also need to say 'wow' about the magazines. What a privilege to be part of the publication. I love the way TM pushes the boundaries and just when I'm getting comfortable it gives me something else to think about! I want to thank Paul for doing his ventriloquist show on Emily's birthday and helping to make her feel special. I loved the music at night too and the birth video. How brave to share such wondrous hours and what an amazing introduction for our children to the miracle of birth!
Last but not least, your lovely girls. Our paths didn't cross much at camp but they were good enough to share you and exchange a few words with me about family celebrations and saving the earth. They're certainly on the right track! Very much love, and huge , huge thanks to you all, long may this wisdom and energy continue!
Jayne Dore
Liverpool, UK

I wanted to say a HUGE thank you for all you did to make the camp possible ~ ESPECIALLY all the cooking and SUPERB food you provided. We really did appreciate you and your family for all that you did.
With love to you all
Gail, Robin & Lucy
Cornwall, UK

EXCELLENT - loved it all. Really love the inclusion of general 'life stuff' - loved all the pics, adored your editorial sharing re ~ your mum (bless you both).
There are times I feel that the magazine reaches a pinnacle of 'can't get any better' and yet each one seems to be a vibrant, alive and passionate expression of perfection everytime!

I feel this is about more than just the content (which is wonderful) - I personally feel it's about the sincerity/integrity and depth of commitment you feel in this work and I want to celebrate you Veronika for your passion and love.

I soooooooooooo respect and appreciate and celebrate the work you are doing.
THANKYOU.
WELL DONE
Ruth Allen
Cornwall

Thank you for the best mag I have ever read. I really feel I'm not going mad when I read it, most of the time I feel so out of step with other people!
Liz Davis
Cardiff

We are midwives who have chosen to practice independently so to promote natural pregnancy, birth and early parenthood and for women and their families to have the experience they want. One of our clients gave me your magazine, it's an inspiration!
Keep up the good work.
Deborah Rhodes
Wharfedale Independent Midwifery Practice Ltd
Addingham, Ilkley, UK

Please can I subscribe to your wonderful mag?
Thank you!
Lara Ellender
Bristol, UK

Not having had much love or much of a relationship with my own mother I found I had a deep fear of how I would be with my own children. My son, Joel Jaya, brought with him a deep connection with Mother Earth and six years later my daughter, Tehya Lola, brought a connection to The Mother magazine (another story). I have laughed and cried along with Joel, Tehya and The Mother magazine and will be eternally grateful for that opportunity.
Thank you
Coroline O' Sullivan
Portsmouth, UK

Hello! Thank you so much for kindly sending me the last copy of The Mother magazine. It has a lovely, special story to it. My husband and I have been trying to create life for a couple of years and although I am fortunate in being able to talk to and work with my unborn children, they haven't arrived here yet! I have been losing heart a bit, actually.
Owing to moving house and difficulties renewing my subscription on line, I missed an edition. Imagine my surprise when it landed on my doorstep! The same day, two other happy coincidences gave me courage and although the children still aren't here, I did find a new, positive perspective that I did not believe I would have found otherwise. Your kindness in sending out the magazine, even when I hadn't paid, gave me hope. Please find enclosed my subscription and a small donation for your kindness.
With love and best wishes for a peace-filled 2005
Sally Anderson-Child
Clwyd, Wales

I am sending my renewal form to TM. I have been inspired, enriched, moved to tears and laughter, challenged, informed and felt a real sense of love and friendship among the readers of your magazine. It is a much needed publication in these materialistic, logic orientated, reductionist days, reminding us of the magic of childhood. I would love to be in contact with other readers in the Derbyshire/South Yorkshire area.
With love and friendship
Jayne Paulson

A wonderful new year to you all. I just love receiving The Mother ~ it is very reassuring and always has new and fascinating articles ~ never written in a way which is critical of people's fixed ideas but always gently and encouragingly supporting a much more natural, child centred, loving approach.
Andrea
By email

The magazine is wonderful.
Fenella Stehle
Oxon, UK

Congratulations on the birth of your new baby..The Mother magazine! I'm loving reading it and feel as if it's the beginning of something very exciting. Thanks for having the vision to share all this stuff with other mums!
Victoria Blease, Cumbria, UK

Power to The Mother!
Barbara Sheppard, Lake District, Cumbria, UK

Hearty congratulations on your brave and beautiful magazine! I honour you!
Emma, Dunedin, New Zealand

Thanks on behalf of everyone of us for starting something none of us felt brave enough to take on! The bit about vaccine ingredients made our hair stand on end…anti-freeze? Aborted human foetus cells? Bacterial and viral DNA? Paint thinner? How on Earth can they justify these as ingredients? Same when they try and feed babies the worst bits scrapped off the factory floor, I suppose…because no-one will notice by the time the food colouring is added and it's been squished down into a jar labelled BABY FOOD. Blessings from the Universe and much love.
Maya Howard, Cornwall, Penzance

If you are ever in the City for a day or to lead a weekend conference on "How The Mother magazine was responsible for the world wide eradication of Crap in A Can; The Bankruptcy of Nestle and the current trend for Orgasmic Childbirth (which is greatly disturbing male obstetricians), which I'm sure you will be soon, then we will definitely have to meet up!
S Queen, Edinburgh, Scotland.

Am speechless! Your mag is amazing. The content, the vibe, the layout, everything is spot on. Very professional, filled with love and not scared to speak the truth. Fab, fab, fab! Well done
Shazzie www.shazzie.com

I received your magazine today. WOW. You have done an excellent job with The Mother magazine. It is a credit to you. The word CHALLENGED was certainly an understatement when reading some of the articles but I love it ~ keeps me true to my instinct…mothering by the heart.
Tanya White, Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia.

Thank you for your beautiful magazine. My friend and I have devoured them page by page with such excitement and joy. It's six days till my due date and I am full of such love and excitement. Can't wait for it all to start: such magic. Thanks again for your divine magazine.
Liza Licence, London, UK

I just wanted to say thank you for committing yourself to The Mother magazine….it is a voice that needs to be heard. There is so much in it! It is great and is giving me the confidence to carry on doing what I though I should be doing anyway though everyone around me thinks I have lost the plot. Thanks once again for a superb magazine.
Hilary Smith, Lancs, UK

Let me add to the chorus of congratulatory heart song. Already you are producing a magazine for mothers with information that I want to read! The Mother magazine brings out my jubilant heart and gives hope for the future of our shared planet.
Jeannine Parvati Baker, Utah, USA, www.freestone.org


Your magazine is *!/%*!? Excellent!!!!!!!
A passionate mama, Cornwall, UK

I feel compelled to subscribe after reading the first two issues of The Mother magazine lent by a friend. It is refreshingly uncompromising and empowering. Congratulations!
Harriet Watson, Norwich, UK

We love your magazine!!!!!!!
Britt Holmstrom-Salisbury, Maine, USA

Your magazine is truly wonderful. Such a spiritual perspective is much needed in these times.
Ann Briscoe,Coventry, UK

I received your magazines and adore them! Just what I needed, there is nothing else like it out there!! What a great voice, vision and courage!
Gabrielle Kauffman, Earlysville, USA

You're doing a brilliant job with this mag…it's the talk! It's networking people …people are meeting up and talking about it and discovering they all know, or know of, each other! It's personal, relevant, approachable, friendly, welcoming, honest, beautiful and true.
Maya Hayward, Cornwall, UK


Victoria Blease's account was beautifully written. I really enjoyed reading about the nonnies and rereading it. That's very much for the feel good factor it generates! Well done on such a great natural resource of a publication!
Kate Elliot, York, UK.

I came home to find issue 4 in our mail. What a treat! Great cover photo and great, great stuff on the inside. So positive and uplifting. A big, huge thank you Veronika!!!
You are an amazing inspiration and the ripples of what you are doing will be felt infinitely throughout the Universe.
Courtney Asprodites, Baton Rouge, USA

I am not sure any words would suit how happy I am that you make the time for such a wonderful life purpose ~ children, love and empowerment for wombyn ~ us mothers out here!
The Mother has been passed around so much that I am not even sure where they are now! Thank you for publishing! Much gratitude and love
Nicole Seeds and Nao Sims, Canada

I never want to stop my subscription
Mariko Nakaya, Tokyo, Japan.

I loved your article for the radical Unschooling section in this latest TM. I loved it not only for its gentle window into a comfortable (enjoyably humorous) way of learning/teaching, but more so for the window into your life and home!
Lynda Cook Sawyer, Virginia, USA

Thank you for the fantastic magazine ~ so full of inspiration!
Please renew my sub for another year.
Kate Oliver, West Sussex, UK.

Thanks again for a really wonderful magazine.
Kirsty Pine, East Sussex, U.K

Thank you for a wonderfully inspiring sample copy of your magazine ~ it was packed with so much I completely resonate with ~ so nourishing to connect with kindred spirits! Enclosed SAE for details of the August camp. It sounds magical. And the photos of last summer's camp are beautiful!
Jayne Paulson, Derbyshire, UK

Thank you so much for issue 7 of The Mother, which finally arrived today... my life felt so empty without her!
With love
Rachel, Canada

I don't need to tell you that you and your magazine are perfect, but I will anyway.
May you reign on !!
lots of love and thanks
Lisa Watson, Perth, Australia.

The Mother Magazine....truly inspirational....a lighthouse on a sometimes dark and dangerous coastline....bringing light to those who choose the alternative from the conventional....don't ever give up the voyage…
with love and light
Laura Starky, East Yorkshire, UK

Ahhhhhhhh, it has arrived. I *******LOVE******* it!
And, my goodness, the new look is FANTASTIC !! ! ! ! How do you do it??? Each one gets better and better! Rock on, Grrrrrrlfriend!
Lynda, by email

I love your magazine and it is helping me to gradually change my life. From seeing it as very extreme I now see it as a wonderful companion to the new path I am walking. Thank you very much for so many deep thoughts.
Thank you very much for your wonderful work
Laure Regnouf, by email

I have just read and made up a batch of the baby wipes that Hillary Smith suggested, they are fantastic! Although in the Cloth Nappy Tips section, they can be used by all. My daughter is almost out of nappies now, I only wish I had had the tip earlier! I will never buy wipes again. I use the bounty wipes version in a tub by the loo for potty training. Thank you for such brilliant ideas and comments and just for an all-round wonderful magazine!
Mary Bekker, Forest Row, East Sussex.U.K

Just a quick note to say --THANKS! I love your magazine, it's simply beautiful. I have been showing it off to all of my friends. Everyone is quite impressed. I love how you layed out my article, it looks great. Wonderful graphic. Thank you so much for making a space for me in your beautiful magazine. I am thrilled.
Hilary Flower, USA

I've just subscribed to the magazine and it's wonderful. I just love it and HAVE to have all the back issues. Please can you tell me how to order them?
Lucie, by email

Hello! I absolutely love your magazine and I share my copy with all new mums I know! I am an aromatherapist and infant massage instructor who used self-hypnosis and flower essences during my home waterbirth on Halloween for baby number three this past year! I listened to your CD (Peaceful Pregnancy) before and during labour and it was wonderful. It helped my water to completely release because of the soothing words. I truly believe that your CD is much better than many others out there for helping women visualize and meditate.
Thank you for helping me with my wonderful labour! Your magazine and CD are inspirational!!!
Jennifer Tan, California , USA

The latest mag was - as usual - brilliant! Many thanks for this valuable resource and inspiration!
Thanks a lot!
Love and sunshine,
Silke, Germany

Thank you for an intelligent, informative magazine.
Rachael Haynes, UK

Reading Barry's article, "Challenging the Monkey" (Winter, Issue 8) made me laugh out loud!
His "monkey that sits on (his) left shoulder" is similar to the monkey I carry! Mine, in comparison, is a huge Mama Baboon with a Big Red Bottom! And, since she's too big to sit on my shoulder, she's attached herself to my back! From this vantage point, she can scramble in my hair - pulling it hard to get my attention; pulling it out when she is disgusted; and screeching in my ear and bouncing wildly when I've obviously coloured outside of the lines or merely thought something 'inappropriate'. Thank you, Barry, for letting us all know that sometimes we can just yell, "oh, shut the hell up," and live to tell about it. SMILES!
Anon, by email

I was recently shown a copy of your magazine by my antenatal yoga teacher and I was very impressed by the articles which gave natural remedies to common complaints and recipes for making your own baby wipes!
Kirsty Pankhurst, Shropshire, UK


Thanks for all your great work! We both love reading The Mother and often have to get sneaky at getting hold of it first. This month Phil swiped it away as soon as I got distracted and dashed off to have a bath. He then lay in the bath reading for almost an hour! I finally got it back when I hopped in the bath. Two minutes later I was joined by the boys. After another ten minutes, Jo was playing at one end, Toby on one breast and me ~ finally able to read!
Maggie Howell, UK

Please find enclosed the booking form for the camp. We are really looking forward to this and meeting up with the other mad and wise women who love The Mother magazine.
Catherine Bibian-Dalle, Bristol, U.K


First of all I want to join in with the praise that you receive from so many parents! It's wonderful to read The Mother magazine. It reminds me what the priorities are for my child ~ sadly, they sometimes get watered down by mainstream info and attitudes of people and institutions around me. I often sense that I am alone in my thinking regarding schooling, freedom for my child to experiment on his own; freedom to develop in his own time etc. He, by the way, is my son Gregory who is now just over two and half years old and who certainly knows what is good for him. He shows no signs of giving breastfeeding because "Nini milk is sooo good for my body!"

Regarding the recent article Killing her Softly, I think it is a very clever text and a potent eye opener! It is frightening what we do to our own bodies if we follow the advice of advertisers for cleaning materials and cosmetics!! If anybody is interested to read more background and find alternatives, read Cleaning Yourself to Death by Pat Thomas ISBN 0 7171 3162 9 (Published by NewLeaf, www.gillmacmillan.ie ) It is a comprehensive source of info about the toxicity of toiletries and household products. It explains how the body reacts to that overload and offers non-toxic alternatives. I certainly cleared out a lot of creams, cleaners etc after reading it. Luckily I did it before I was pregnant or breastfeeding.
Keep up the good work!
Gaby Horsley, Staffs, U.K

RE: Mother's medicine Bag, issue 8 editorial
A couple of things that would be in my medicine bag…
A scented candle; my favourite poem (The lady of Shalot); all my Mother Magazines; a hug and a good book. Currently I'm reading The Dance by Oriah Mountain Dreamer, which I'm very much enjoying. Thank you for The Mother.
Emma Sibley-Morgan, U.K

(letter to a new subscriber on the motherlylove egroup)
I must warn you - you will never be the same again once you have
subbed to The Mother. I only subbed in November and I have changed so much already. I used to think some of the things in there were a bit "extreme" for me, but now that's where I want to be. There should be a Public Health warning on the front page - "This magazine will change your life in the most amazing ways".
Lucie (who can't believe she is now seriously thinking about growing her own veggies and starting a compost heap!!)

Today I duly received the most recent copy. Thank you, and am going to renew my subscription.
Really do look forward to sharing the insight of nurturing with you, even though we are far away from each other...
Thanks.
Mariko Nakaya, Japan

Thank you unreservedly and often tearfully for The Mother magazine. I discovered it long after both my births and now I know that I am not alone and such a controversial freak!
Tara Perry, Brighton, UK

It's been said before but I'll say it again anyway: thank you for your wonderful, inspirational and supportive magazine. I really look forward to each issue, it always leaves me feeling nurtured and encouraged. Please keep up the good work…
Jo Wheeler, By email

Living in Portugal, it is always with great pleasure that I read The Mother. An excellent reminder of not being alone. I particularly enjoy your homeschooling experiences as we are on the 'radical unschooling' road with our three children. It is an endless journey ~ learning all the time. Thank you for such an inspirational and educational magazine.
Parvine Damon, Algarve, Portugal.

I've loved every moment reading The Mother magazine and wished I'd come across it during Faith's first few months….although she is now only 9 1/2 months old and so feel blessed to have come across it at all!
Emma Southwood, UK.

You do a great job on the magazine. It is so fantastic and I show it to everyone who is interested.
Julie Holland, Surrey, UK

Keep up the good work
Peace and Bright Blessings
Kirsten Millinson, Lincs, UK

Great magazine - I really love it!
Thanks
Sandra Crawford, Dartington, UK

Thank you again and again for your words!! Still absolutely savour each article, photo and story!
Elwyn Clements, Durham, UK

I am feasting!~ you have done once again a wonderful job.
This is the kind of magazine to savour well after the kids have gone to bed, the recipe also includes a hot bath and candles!
Anon

The Sandpiper story did bring joy… and soaked my cheeks with tears... how beautiful! If it were possible, I held my tiny babe that much closer still after reading… and we lived several lifetimes together with total appreciation of the other in that one moment… and those that followed. Then came the perfectly timed 'Conscious Conception and Peaceful Pregnancy'…I wonder how many of us reading saw reflections of our own time spent in our mother's wombs, our own childhoods and journeys… I wonder how many of us suddenly felt a greater appreciation of the work we do… and how we're turning it all round for OUR children? Anyone who ever felt that motherhood is not a 'real' job… that 'real' jobs can only be obtained outside the home and involve a wage coming in must surely now reappraise the situation.

The rest of issue five was great - as usual... TM is always eagerly anticipated... even better now I have time to sit down whilst breastfeeding! Again I send you the strength of a fleet of angels to help you continue in all you do.
Maya, Cornwall, UK

WONDERFUL magazine!!!!I am in love.
Bright Blessings
Billie Kay, USA

Thanks for being such a beautiful spokeswoman for the wild Goddess and for the wildness in all of us.
Love
Sarah Buckley, Queensland, Australia.

I appreciate you creating this magazine and look forward to reading many more!!
Aloha,
Laurel Stuart, Hawaii, USA

I received TM10 today and it is brilliant! I have spent tonight reading it. Your magazine is changing the way I live my life. I love reading your column on radical unschooling.
Beatrice, UK

A big thank you for the camp at Moondawn! We enjoyed it very much and clearly an enormous amount of energy had been channelled into making it a success. It was!
It was so good to see the children so free and happy!
L. Tomkins, UK

I can honestly say that the camp was something of an epiphany for me…I haven't been camping in 15 years and to live really simply for just that few days and among people who share many of the same views, has just been mind-blowing. I have loved every minute of it.
The whole atmosphere of the camp was so relaxed and feel good that I am still readjusting back to my 'normal' life and honestly finding it pretty difficult to do this. All I can say is that it is just as well that the camp didn't last longer, because I would really have found it difficult to come back home.
Jo, UK

A huge thank you from the bottom of our hearts for such a wonderful camp experience. inspiring people with fantastic advice and some incredible stories. We learned so much.
The Beanie Family, UK

I'm so impressed with your magazine and just love Jeannine Parvati Baker's question and answer column. Her words speak the truth, a truth that has become unspeakable in our culture. It is a relief to hear it. Such cutting edge, high quality. Thank you
Jane Collings, Mother, Midwife, Australia

Thank you for your supportive and quite unique magazine.
Claire Norwood, UK

Many thanks for a wonderful, empowering magazine.
Kerris, UK

Keep up the fantastic work. You are making such a difference in my life.
Helen Rastall, UK

It really is an inspiration piece of work and each issue brings smiles, laughter and sometimes tears into our house.
Barry and Winnie Durdant-Hollamby, UK

I'm looking forward to the next issue ~ I feel like a hungry wolf that devours it as quickly as possible! It fills such a deep gap in our culture.
Sophie, Spain

   
 
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